Where Gods Come and Go
It is daylily season.
I’ve mentioned in previous posts that I have inherited close to fifty different daylilies from my father as a result of the sale of my childhood home last fall. He divided all his lilies so I had one of each kind, including and especially the ones he bred himself.
Daylilies are not really lilies. They are hemerocallis from the Greek hemera (day) and kalos (beautiful). Now, in mid-July, most of them are in bloom. And my husband is entertained by my daily walks among these generous blossoms since I talk to them as I walk, complimenting each type on its beauty while I also remove the previous day’s dead blossoms.
Even though many of the types put out numerous buds so that it seems they are in bloom for weeks, in fact each bloom only lasts one day. All that effort, all that energy, poured into each bud, only for it to have one glorious day of bloom and color. One glorious day to attract hummingbird and butterfly and bee for pollination and propagation.
Last week, my husband, Bob, and I were in Austin, Texas for the wedding of his brother, Ted. While out with his brother and siblings at a local nursery to buy a palm tree for the bridal couple’s wedding gift, Bob’s brother asked about an agave plant that had died in his front yard. The nursery man in his sunglasses and cowboy hat nodded and asked, “Did it bloom?” When the answer was yes, the nursery man told us that agave plants grow slowly, some for 15 years or more, gathering the nutrients they need to put forth blooms. Then, once they bloom, usually with one blossom, and set seed, they die. Years of growth all to produce one tall bloom.
These plants remind me of the sand paintings done by the Navajo that are painstakingly created for ceremonial purposes and then destroyed at the end of the ceremony. According to one source, the Navajo word for these sandpaintings means “the place where the gods come and go.”
Where the gods come and go. Like the daylilies and the agave, the sandpaintings remind us that the Divine often resides in the act of creation as much, if not more so, than in the creation itself. It is in the secret growth beneath the dark of soil and winter, in the determined reaching for the spring sun, and then the sudden glorious burst into summer bloom, that the mystery and celebration of Life, of creation is found. The end result – the painting, the bloom, the plant are only temporary and make room for further creation.
We can get so focused on the end result – on the book, the play, the art exhibit, or the performance, that we often forget to give mindfulness, commitment, and value to the act of creating. And in doing so, we can shut ourselves off from the transcendence of creation, from the experience of the Divine.
So when your published book seems light years away, when your stage performance is over before you know it, when the perfection of your creation is fleeting and then gone – remember the daylily and the agave. Give yourself to the moment of creation, where the gods come and go.
July 15th, 2008 at 8:48 pm
What beautiful role models the elements of nature can be. I love your insights on daylilies and agave and what they can teach us.
July 16th, 2008 at 7:52 am
That’s just perfect–where the gods come and go.
I had taken up sculpting, just so I would have a “fun” creative outlet. What made it fun was that I had no intentions of casting anything in bronze (an expensive process, which means the piece must be perfect!) so I was free to take my time with the clay and make a perfectly imperfect piece.
But then I decided I would try to get something cast. I read books and articles on-line. Poured through magazines and joined internet groups. I became determined… and lost the joy.
Why is fun not enough? Why do we always keep pushing?
Do we really like fear that much?
July 30th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
YOU ARE TOO…TOO…TOO….WONDERFULLY TUNED IN. What a beautiful piece.